family/affair

Nobody wants to blowNobody wants to be left outYou can't leave, 'cause your heart is thereBut you can't stay, 'cause you been somewhere elseYou can't cry, 'cause you'll look broke downBut you're cryin' anyway 'cause you're all broke downIt's a family affairIt's a family affair--"Family Affair", Sly and The Family Stone