She Rant #7: Waaaaay Too Much Information!!!

I was recently reminded of one of my biggest She-Peeves. Women telling other women, in vivid detail, about their man's private parts. Seriously???

I cannot tell you how many of my friends - not to mention, women I hardly know - have dropped the TMI bomb on me before I have time to plug my ears, scream, "La la la la la la la!" and curl up in a ball under my desk. Really? You really think that I need, or want, to know that your husband has a really low hanging scrotum, one ball, small penis, penis discolored a certain way from circumcision, crooked penis, purple polka-dot penis, or anything at all about his penis???

I do not, repeat - DO NOT, want to know anything about the junk belonging to your husband or boyfriend. I think this is such an incredible violation of your relationship. And I don't want to hang around him knowing that his balls touch his knees or that he curves to the left. Not that it makes me uncomfortable, it's just that he's not my guy - it's none of my business.

The only sort-of, kind-of, maybe exception is if your guy is large. Fine. He has a big dick. Bravo. I have no problem with the brief advertising of your circus pony and most guys I know that have Mr. Ed living in their pants actually prefer that information be passed around. It's like people knowing he owns a Lamborghini - not really something he's looking to hide. (Which is weird because, honestly, for us women... Never mind. Penis size. Maybe a post for another day. Or not.) But that's it! That's all the information I need. He's big. End of story. Keep shape, texture, color, and all other identifying information to yourself. I am begging you.

Women are really weird about this - somehow not understanding how boundary impaired and beyond inappropriate it is. Ladies, men get pissed about it for a reason. And, no, they don't do the same thing. Guys DO NOT sit around talking about the fact that your right boob is bigger than your left, the size of your clitoris, how your V-Jay-Jay looks, or the color and length of your vaginal stretch marks. Could you imagine how you'd feel if they did??? Horrified, right? IT'S THE SAME FREAKING THING!!!

I have actually warned my son about this - just so, when he is older he can lay down ground rules with girlfriends and wife. And you better believe that my daughter will be schooled in the ways of relationship boundaries, privacy and loyalty.

Can't believe it took me so long to bitch about this. Seriously, Ladies, I don't want to hear it and he doesn't want me, or anyone else, to know it. If you still insist on divulging then I give him full permission to tell his friend about your crooked nipple and low hanging labia.

It's only fair.

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