BOOK PASSAGE OF "DIVORCE IN BUDA" by Sandor Marai
"In those years it was fashionable based education in psychoanalysis. The children of middle-class families grew under the supervision of neurologists, constant psychological support. The new education denied parents the opportunity to warn the children and to impose explicit prohibitions, could only explain and clarify concepts grant permissions. Komives Kristof thought he could be a good father and conscientious but not respect these modern educational standards. He believed that what matters is the whole family atmosphere, the fact that the family is a real family, for parents and children will understand and feel deep and profound mind together. And if that cohesion holds together the family, then parents can even afford the odd dispute, may scold their children, the mother can spread cheeks, the parent may appear lethargic, irritable or stingy, and even then the family will remain a true community: no shivering and children will not have trauma or psychological crisis as a result of a blow from the father. Parents can show their relationship passionate passionately tender or violent, can afford fights and romantic walks because all that will remain part of family life such as births and deaths, as the casting and the special meal on Sundays. Only the whole matter, and if all is well, the children feel protected even if the parents are severe. was convinced that the family environment that determines the vital feeling of the children. Naturally, that sincerity, that union, that feeling of belonging to a community, with all its good and bad, is only valid if it is deeply sincere and selfless. Sure ... Who dares to judge the intimacy of a family? "
" Divorce in Buda ", Page 45
Ed Sandor Marai
Salamandra, Barcelona, \u200b\u200b2002
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